I don't know about anyone else here, but I've got almost no self-confidence right now in my life. I'm always afraid there's things people aren't telling me or I'm not doing someting right, or there's some hint I'm supposed to be picking up on that I'm not.
turns out, I'm right. and one of the few people I have always told to be honest with me if there is something I'm doing they don't agree with, was withholding information from me, and I stewed over it for days thinking something was up until I finally asked, and they confirmed it. so now I can't trust them, and apparently they don't trust me, even though they say they do. and this all just confirms my paranoia and knocks my confidence down 6,000 percent.
So **** everyone. I now officially have ONE person in this entire world who I can trust 100% with ANYTHING, and I can't even talk to them right now when I need to. Merry ****ing Easter
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2003 Accent GT - F&R strut bars, rear PSC sway bar, Falken Azenis rubber, TWM short shifter
1998 Accent L - <b>TURBO</b> - scoupe manifold and T15 turbo pushing 5PSI, 2.0L injectors, beta MAF, beta TB, 2 1/4 exhaust(no cat), ksports, slotted rotors w/ SS lines - much more!
what the fvck happend? well not details, but why such hate?
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05' accent gt-Led underglow, Custom CAI from an eclipse, evo fusion front strut bar, short shifter, and lots of ice!!! 6.5 touch, ps2, two 12" kicker cvr(800 watts rms each) two 1100 watt fosgate amps. and lots more to come. Complete custom cat-back exhaust.
-My stereo is louder than yours!!!!!
(unless you hit more then 140.2Db, then you win)
its hard to trust people, thats for sure. but i think you shouldnt completely block yourself from vunerablilty. there are certin people who know what your trusting them with and some that dont. not everyone can be that way. i think you should give people second chances. did you tell this person you didnt appreciate the way they treated the situation? if you dont let your thoughts be known, they may not know or understand how that affected you and they will try to act differently in the future.
things will work out man, they always will. dont get yourself too down right away. its not the end, and life will go on. just cheer up man, hp is still here and we still care.
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its hard to trust people, thats for sure....did you tell this person you didnt appreciate the way they treated the situation? if you dont let your thoughts be known, they may not know or understand how that affected you and they will try to act differently in the future.
Now might not be the most tactful time to tell them.
But yes, people can do somethings you totally never expected, and I'll leave it at that.
on that topic, i found out my (no longer) best friend fcked my gf while we were going out.
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05' accent gt-Led underglow, Custom CAI from an eclipse, evo fusion front strut bar, short shifter, and lots of ice!!! 6.5 touch, ps2, two 12" kicker cvr(800 watts rms each) two 1100 watt fosgate amps. and lots more to come. Complete custom cat-back exhaust.
-My stereo is louder than yours!!!!!
(unless you hit more then 140.2Db, then you win)
At least you know your ex girlfriend was hot enough for your friend to hit it.
2nd... You hit it, and quit it before it was too late and she got you tied down.
bvtmattyc:
The same advice I tell eveyone that's down on their luck.
Step 1 - Go Online
Step 2 - Go to THE HUN'S YELLOW PAGES
Step 3 - Grab a nice tub of vaseline/bottle of lotion *Optional - Box of Tissues*
Step 4 - Enjoy free porn
Step 5 - Be happy and enjoy yourself
Step 6 - Be happy and enjoy yourself
Step 7 - Be happy and enjoy yourself
Christ... **** happens, but move on because if you dwel, nothing gets fixed and you feel like ****.
ehh, thats why im single now. i truely only trust 2 people. and both are girls
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05' accent gt-Led underglow, Custom CAI from an eclipse, evo fusion front strut bar, short shifter, and lots of ice!!! 6.5 touch, ps2, two 12" kicker cvr(800 watts rms each) two 1100 watt fosgate amps. and lots more to come. Complete custom cat-back exhaust.
-My stereo is louder than yours!!!!!
(unless you hit more then 140.2Db, then you win)
I agree that nobody can trust anyone. I will never trust someone again. Too much trust leads to you not seeing signs you should have seen and just assuming the best. That will get you into trouble.
I agree that nobody can trust anyone. I will never trust someone again. Too much trust leads to you not seeing signs you should have seen and just assuming the best. That will get you into trouble.
i think thats the smartest thing ive heard from you.... jk
but so true. i dont think ive ever heard it put better.
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05' accent gt-Led underglow, Custom CAI from an eclipse, evo fusion front strut bar, short shifter, and lots of ice!!! 6.5 touch, ps2, two 12" kicker cvr(800 watts rms each) two 1100 watt fosgate amps. and lots more to come. Complete custom cat-back exhaust.
-My stereo is louder than yours!!!!!
(unless you hit more then 140.2Db, then you win)
I did confront them, and the reason they didn't come forward to me was because they thought it was a "non issue" and it would go away. In reality I knew something was wrong and they didn't want to hurt me by bringing it up, but in reality by them not bringing it up they hurt me even more then if they would have addressed it in the first place. I'm too deep thinking and perceptive for my own ****ing good. I listen to EVERYTHING and can pickup on signs so easily when something is wrong, it was only a matter of tim before something like this happened.
so now I can't get away from them. I'm only around these people(it's actually a husband and wife) for the sake of their 2 kids who think of me as their "big brother". I really have a rough time forgiving someone after they let me down, but I can't just abandon these guys.
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2003 Accent GT - F&R strut bars, rear PSC sway bar, Falken Azenis rubber, TWM short shifter
1998 Accent L - <b>TURBO</b> - scoupe manifold and T15 turbo pushing 5PSI, 2.0L injectors, beta MAF, beta TB, 2 1/4 exhaust(no cat), ksports, slotted rotors w/ SS lines - much more!
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