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nfx · 02-24-2005, 09:00 PM

OK, I've searched around the net, but I've seen so many different things I'm not sure what to believe so I'll just ask here.

Well... my girlfriend and I have started having sex, and with certain positions I just have no control over ejaculation. Below are the positions we normally use, so I'll go through what happens.

We started using this position and it's amazing. She gets enough stimulation, I get enough stimulation, and it's easy for me to go strong for quite a long time. I don't think I've ever gotten an orgasm out of her with this position, but I've never really attempted because I always end up going to this position...

Missionary position... and after about 20 seconds of doing this, I need to pull out and cum. No matter how fast I go, it almost always happens, unless I've already came before hand and we're going at it for the second time, and then it's still hard. The only good thing about this position that it's easier to get an orgasm out of her and after 2 or 3 times going at it, I can get one out of her... but 2 or 3 times around, it's kind of disapointing.

And no picture, but when she's on top, sometimes I can last, other times I'm a flop. But that's amazing, and theres so many different things she can do, so that might be it too.

Anyhow.. the problem is the premature ejactulation, if that's the term for it. How do I fix it... exercise, practice, masturbation, creams, what?? Help me out so I can fix this.

SpeedRacer · 02-24-2005, 09:21 PM

Missionary has always been my weakness too, it's perfectly normal. Remember the human body is designed to reproduce, not to enjoy sex. And missionary is the "proper" position, therefore making ejaculation happen quickly. At least that's my theory.

Anyways, it only gets better. You can read and research all you want, but the best sex comes from experience and time. But for now, just switch it up more. If missionary makes you bust your nut, then try one of the other 427384973289423 available positions.

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Let her get on top. She'll love it and you'll last forever. I can literally go for hours if she's on top, and believe me she's never getting bored. Her on top is also good for hitting her G-spot, and believe me you'll KNOW when you hit it.

Other than that my only advice is be patient, don't be afraid to experiment, and remember you're a regular guy not a porn star! Don't let that shit get you down.

Slow 2K2GT · 02-25-2005, 05:47 PM

with missionary position its the top portion of the penis (top of shaft and head) that is getting all the attention, find a position ie doggy, reverse cowgirl...that will draw the attention away from that area...there is also one exercise that you can do and its age old...you know how you can cut off your stream of pee by flexing your penis, do this just before you ejaculate as well. As soon as you start feeling the urge to cum than slow things down, pull out and change positions. Practice this "flexing" a few times a day to make your pc muscle stronger and you will eventually be able to control you ejaculations.

santana · 02-27-2005, 12:34 PM

naturally bro, your excited, because your doing the nasty! but you honestly should just relax and take deep breaths, and concentrate on something like you relaxing honestly, other than that dont waste your money on the herbs out there like love longer and etc. if your really seroius take some horny goat weed (over the counter viagra, all herbal though, makes you like a rocket for hours) and thattl keep you up , but youll have to take breaks, but after you go once, itll take longer to go the next time, adn the next.

rubenz · 02-27-2005, 05:17 PM

those little wooden characters aren't going to cut it. we need real pictures to know exactly what your talking about.

grimmy · 02-28-2005, 04:27 PM

rubenz... hahah... shut the !@#$ up... but seriously...

I always found the Missionary to be a sincere weakness too.. I always found her on top to be good for sensation and duration, and standing doggy style to be good, with her on the bed and me standing beside it. Usually last a good time, but bad sensation for the dude, good for her.

there are so many positions, just keep trying!

Like already said... not everyone is a porn star!~

-Grimmy

Coal_forge · 03-02-2005, 03:01 AM

Try thinking of something that would turn you off. First time lasts < 2nd round
. Focus on something else during the second round, first round was your round.
http://www.squizzle.com/movieview.asp?id=2191
Watch this movie and keep that in your head.

nfx · 03-03-2005, 11:41 PM

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those little wooden characters aren't going to cut it. we need real pictures to know exactly what your talking about.
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I'll get right on that.

Anyway... I've worked on it... honestly weird, but a website said to use the reflex your body has to hold in your piss to hold in your cum. After 2 weeks of practing this w/ her and my hand it's going better, even in the missionary position. Infact I think she was up to 6 to my 2 the last time we went at it so I told her she needed to work at it :lol:

grimmy · 03-05-2005, 11:46 PM

Dont get cocky (dont mind the pun)... nex time you'll be all riled up... and when she simply LOOKS at your junk.. BOOOM!

heheheehehee

Good job.. keep her satisfied

-Grimmy

endlessmike · 04-14-2005, 06:47 AM

damnit, if only i had a sex life to use some of these tips towards.:lol: sober sex has always been my weakness. i dont normally have much sex drive, but once i start drinking it all comes out. so take my lack of sex drive, plus my extreme laziness, and sex becomes more of a chore, so i think my body automatically tries to get done as fast as possible. get me drunk on jager and i cant get off:lol: ladies like it, and it just makes me able to fall asleep:zzz:

[Edited by endlessmike on Apr 14, 2005 2:49 AM]