Damn bro, you got lots of reading to do, just look around the site, you can order a bunch of shiat through the HP.com store. Just use the SEARCH button and the SHOP HP.COM button in the right hand corner.
I think basically you're gonna want,
AEM intake
Rside Advance Short throw shifter, (in the for sale section, its a group buy)
MBRP exhaust available at www.speedstate.com
Probably some HVE headers if you can find em, otherwise just go on ebay and buy some SS autochrome headers for no more than 150 bux
Go to
www.haloz.com for some pretty lights that make you go faster

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and pick up like an SAFC-II for some fuel tuning