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Besides stacy...LMAO!

Aight get this sh!t, My babies mommy, I don't call her my GF cuz she isnt. We separated for some stupid ass reason a while back because she said our common interest don;t match, So I told her what are you talking about, I'm the same person I was when you met me, I didn't change YOU did.<img src=/images/forums/snitz/uhh.gif width=15 height=15 border=0> She has been pregant for almost 9 months now and Im really starting to have some doubts about this even being my kid! She never calls me, 1/100 times she will answer my pages, Doesn't have anything to talk about, Always avoids me and treats me like a fvcking stranger. NOW, If this was my kid don't you think she would be calling me off the hook about anything and everything? The b!tch didn't even call me on Xmas! and I paged her twice! She can go out with her friends but she doesn't have time to go out with me? And then she blames ME for changing? Bwahahahah. Someone needs to get there sh!t straight here! Im seriously starting to wonder if this is my kid that shes having or its someone elses, she claims to be a good little chirstan girl letf and right, but damn she sure don't act like it. A couple days ago I paged her again, with my number of course. She calls me back and says " Did someone call for charity?' I said yeah, sorry to bother you but its me, alex.And she was like oh ... wassup, like she didn't want to talk to me, So I got to the point. Well whatcha doing I said? She told me she was out with her friend meleny. I was like , well, ok I have to go now, then she asks me if anythings wrong, I told her, Yeah what do you think?! You have time to go out with your friend! but you don't even have anytime for me! Thats bullsh!t. Then she told me she loved me. So I laughed and said "Prove it lair" and hung up the phone. Exuse me, but I treated her like a goddess and she turns around and treats me like sh!t!!! Now Im so confused, is this really my baby!? Im getting a DNA testing once it is born, If it IS my baby then Im going to cort and I'm getting the baby. If its not mine, then I'll end up never talking to her again. But serously if this was my baby, I think she would be all over my phone calls like white on rice. Shes not working not going to school and just avioding me. Complete bullsh!t. Im sick of this crap.<img src=/images/forums/snitz/disapprove.gif width=15 height=15 border=0>


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Well you definately go t one thing straight. If you have any doubts at all get a damn DNA test. Cause once you sign that birth certificate that cild is yours forever in the courts no matter if you are the biological father or not.

I am sorry to hear that things just don't seem to be working out for you but I am glad that you plan on taking care of the kid if it is yours no matter what is happening between you two.<img src=/images/forums/snitz/thumbup.gif width=25 height=18 border=0>


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damn dude.. sorry to hear that.. id get the DNA test too.


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Yeah, no matter what, I'm getting that test, I don't care what she says, She"ll probably pull that stupid "Don't you trust me" sh!t on me, and thats when I simply laugh at her and tell her, " Me? Trust you? Your a complete stranger to me, how am I suppost to trust anybody anymore." Relationships make me sick, this will be the last, the last for a very long time. If this baby is mine I will fight my heart out for it, I WANT the kid and either seems like A: She wants it but wants nothing to do with me B: Doesnt want it at all. So no matter what I have tons of money, If it requires my collage funds I will get my little girl, I have always been told by others I would make a great father, damn I hate her so much. <img src=/images/forums/snitz/angry.gif width=15 height=15 border=0><img src=/images/forums/snitz/disapprove.gif width=15 height=15 border=0>


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...damn I hate her so much. <img src=/images/forums/snitz/angry.gif width=15 height=15 border=0><img src=/images/forums/snitz/disapprove.gif width=15 height=15 border=0>


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Who said where gunna be together if it is my kid. If it is mine, I'm taking it! She doesn't know crap about kids. She can't even put together a crib!


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Who said where gunna be together if it is my kid. If it is mine, I'm taking it! She doesn't know crap about kids. She can't even put together a crib!


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That's not my point. IF you win custody which will be incredibly hard (you have to proove she is unfit), she will still retain visitation rights.

Which means when she comes to see the baby or pick her up or whatnot you should repress your anger and hatred while the child is present. Even if that means screaming and pulling your hair out after she left with the child. Even if that means biting your tongue when your daughter comes home and says, "Mommy says you're a dickhead and have a small wee-wee.".

If you start showing hatred and dislike in front of the baby she'll be incredibly confused even at a very young age.
 

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I got you, If I loved the child as much as I know I do, If its mine that is, I would never show any anger around her, Its her mother that has a problem, She says the wrong things at the wrong time, she can't even pay her own bills. She cannot afford to take care of the kid, and she knows it. I really think shes unfit for the job, I have plenty of selfcontroll, she is the one Im worried about. Thats why I want full custody, Sh!t, knowing her, shell probably sign away at her parental rights! Shes the one that thinks her life is over. simply because shes having a kid.


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I am sure you will do the right thing.<img src=/images/forums/snitz/thumbup.gif width=25 height=18 border=0>


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About time someone cought on to that sh!t. LOL!


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Ya know Lantra, you sound like an immature dumbass. It sounds to me like you want your ex back and are trying to use the baby to help you out. It is obvious that she doesn't want you. You shouldn't use that to start questioning the paternity of the child. Just because she is pregnant with your child doesn't mean she has to spend time with you now. The baby isn't here yet.
 

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Hahaha, Notice how she jumps right into the seane when I make a little joke about her and she jumps out calling me a dumbass! MKAY! You skank!
Number 1. I dont want her. I could care less about her, all I want is my kid, I think if she didn't want me she wouldnt tell me she loved me, Its obvous you havent been pregant before so why don't you shut your damn mouth!
Nummbeeeeer 2! Don't call me immature ya jackass! your the ones that likes to throw BS up in the air and piss the other members off and make silly **** up about drew and them. Oh and BTW your offically HP.coms SLUT OF THE YEAR. Congraufuvckinlations sh!t talker! How immature is this for you? Being meat manager making 18 dollars a hour, taking care of my entire family paying full rent and saving up money to get my own place and being prepared to take care of a kid! I didn't get my position because I was immature num nuts, I got it because I was resonsible and being responsible requires maturity. Or are you still having your mom pay your car insurance, you mom bought you your car, and your mom pays for your food and bills. Time to grow up now dontcha think? Going threw 4 devorices and violent step fathers makes you strong in certain areas, having to hold a gun to your step fathers faces because he won't get out of you house. You can't even relate to half the sh!t Ive been threw so why don't you sit on it and rotate bizzatch.

Number 3!!!!! I didn't want this to happen, She changed on me alloffathe sudden, she simply has problems, I wanted to get married before all this sh!t happened, and dammit she did too. I think shes just recenting her self, but damn it takes two to tango, just wait tell she holds the baby in her arms, Im a very forgiving man, If she wants to change then maybee we can work something out, but as of now, I will don't want anything to do with her. Get my drift?


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Hold the horses here, I'm gonna say some stuff. I've talked to Alex/Lantra and I know he doesn't want his ex back in his life. The ONLY reason she is in his life is because she says its his baby. If that wasnt the case, believe me, I know she wouldnt be a part. Thats the logical answer. I've talked to him personaly and I know this. This is a serious situation... going off topic to flame each other, not the deal. So face it up and lets look at this as adults, seeing this is an adult situation. <img src=/images/forums/snitz/thumbup.gif width=25 height=18 border=0>


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I think he loves her very much by the way he talks and would love to have her back in his life, but is angry because this in not what she wants at this time. He said that he will maybe take her back if she "changes"...probably meaning if she decides she wants him back.

If you do want her back, then let her know that but don't push her too much....give her some space to sort things out. I'm sure being pregnant is very emotional. She could realize that she's making a mistake and want you back. If she doesn't decide that or you decide you don't want her back, then you can still be a good father.
 

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For once..... I'm going to have to agree with Stacy on this one... <img src=/images/forums/snitz/laugh.gif width=15 height=31 border=0> She makes a good point. <img src=/images/forums/snitz/tongue.gif width=15 height=15 border=0> Sorry Alex, she does...


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doesnt matter what the deal with the mother of the child is. he WANTS to be a good father. there arent many men out there like that. as he said he'd do anything for HIS child. all the best dude, you'll do great!!! this kid is lucky to have a dad like that if you ask me.

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Yeah, agreed... I told him that before. I told him he was a good man cuz he has his priorities straight, and wants whats best for this kid..... so <img src=/images/forums/snitz/thumbup.gif width=25 height=18 border=0>


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Thats all that matters ins't it, I grantantee you people any ordanary man would run for the damn hills if he found out his girl is pregant, I looked forward to it, you have NO IDEA how long I wanted a kid. Now that I finally might beable to have one, Im just hopeing things turn out fine. Aslong as I have the kid and all is well I don't care about nothing else.


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BTW Stacy, my apologees, I guess Ive just been pissed off at everybody and everything so consider my words of hatred just some stupid way of blowing off steam. No offence to you or anyone else on the bored, but for once, I think Im really wanting something so bad that I will do anything for and not let anything get in my way of doing it. Sorry for double posting. and I agree with you. but wont force her into something she doesnt want to do. Besides its her decision.


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